hello. i would like to know if im really antisocial. i see
myself as outgoing with a lot of girls yet it takes very long for me to
ask girls out and for their numbers. i feel ..(oh im a male by the
way...lol) i dont go out to parties and if i do witha friend i tend to just
sip on a beer by my self watching others and too shy to go askfor a
dance i feel as if everybody will be watching me.its a bit difficult to
explain.however i dont mind taking a girl to a quiet dinner...walking
out holding hands, u know..?..things that does not involve toomuch public
exposureand i really would like to be agressive and bold in public even
if it means dancing with a circle of people around me. How can i be
more carefree and wild in public.?just enjoying myself
-- = kenny
Kenny, you need to be more of a cad. You're nervous around girls because you like them and would care if they rejected you. Practice on girls you don't have any interest on. It's like interviewing for jobs you probably wouldn't take so that you get experience interviewing. Also, alcohol does a lot to make people carefree and wild in public. -- Eleanor Roosevelt
My roommate is hot.
-- = Shanananana
Buy an air conditioner! Hahaha. Seriously, you must never have romantic relations with a roommate. It will be awkward forever. If you find yourself having a boy or girl sandwich with him or her, you must only interact with the other person and not even kiss your roommate. Sorry, but them's the rules! -- Eleanor Roosevelt
why is it that i feel the need to shave my eyebrows so that
they are at least half an inch long-on each side? i mean, i start at the
bridge of my nose and shave until it is half gone. is this sane? do
guys find this attractive?
-- = regina philange
If I said it wasn't sane, there are a lot of insane people who read my advice column who'd be offended that I think that's insane. So it's sane. Some guys find it attractive. Some don't. That's how it is about everything you do, so just do whatever you want. -- Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor,
i am in love with my best guy friend. and this is difficult because a)
he has a girlfiend and b) we have been penfriends since university
started and most excellent penfriends but now we are going to be home from
our separate schools and i want to be his friend but it is hard to do
when i am also in love with him. i tried not being in love with him, but
really that didn't help. i listened to music that was encouraging
against my having feelings for him but no luck, the music that gave me hope
was more persistant on the Itunes. his girlfriend will be far from him
and i will be close. what should i do? i have never really told him of
course because then he would think that i am only interested in him
romantically when in fact i do like him for his other great qualities
other than being adorable and the kind of guy one has a hard time
resisting. please advise me on my options. i also have tried drinking but that
is never a good solution.
-- = petula
Hahaha. My advice is so formulaic that you let me know not to give you my standard advice! I think you should tell him. Right now all the stimuli in your life remind you of liking him, but if he rejects you, you can organize all the stimuli to remind you that he isn't so great. Oh, maybe don't tell him. Letting him know is a good strategy, but telling to his face might not be the best tactic. Try seducing him. Is the kind of boy who'd succumb to being shown your boob? You could show him your boob. -- Eleanor Roosevelt
I'm confused. I like him but he doesn't like me. Can I kill
him? How?
-- = Confuzzled 4 ever
What's confusing about that? Just get over him. -- Eleanor Roosevelt
Can I make A guy like me? How? He is very shy and I just
love that!!!>... But he doesn't like me. Is there anyway I can make him
mine without seeming to obvious?
-- = i need a lot of help
To make a guy like you, take interest in his life. Laugh at him when he makes jokes. He will think you are very funny. (This doesn't work so well for boys making girls like them.) Show him your boob. With a shy guy you have to be more forward. In his lonely core, he'll like anyone who will give him attention. --- Eleanor Roosevelt
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